fleshlight
Sex with you is about sex within and with your body, after all, so any kind of sex you have needs to leave all the room in the world for what your body can or cannot do at any given time, or does or does not do outside your control. Sex with yourself or someone else is supposed to be an expression of how and what you are feeling, and your own sexuality and self. That's usually a big part of what makes it feel like something exciting, and big and rich.Are you with someone you feel emotionally safe with? Someone who seems to accept you, who wants to be with you as a whole person, and who has the kind of emotional maturity people need to be able to handle being sexual with someone else? If so, why try and hide your body just being your body?Sex would likely be way more enjoyable for you both if you just worked on learning to be cool with reaching orgasm whenever it happens, and gave your partner the chance to be cool with it, which he probably will be if he's not a total jerk. s...